Momma’s Angel

Scripture and Notes on a Sermon April 28, 2008

The scripture and sermon yesterday, Ephesians 4:22-32 “Words That Bring A Blessing”, struck a cord in me. Usually my words are pretty clean, but occassionally when I’m really annoyed (sadly it’s always small) I’ll swear to myself, I hate it. Normally I have good expectations for Sara Ellen’s behavior but there are times I’m not up to the task and use my angry voice. She doesn’t like it and says “not the voice!” It always makes me think of Jesus and how he is perfectly patient with us and I realize how amazing he is.

The scripture:
You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Therefore each of your must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are stilly angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with his own hands, that he may have something to share with those in need. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slanfer, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each, other just as Christ forgave you.

I am not having the best day this Monday, nothing special to do and no inspiring plan to carry out. This kind of day makes me prone to anger and ungentleness. I am sarcastic at times and I realize it’s not humor, but untruths that make the receiver feel defensive, embarrased, and perhaps a little malicious. I tend to use sarcasm when I am surprised they ask what sounds like a dumb question because they are uninformed or make an obvious request/statement. This scripture requires we “put away ALL falsehood”. That’s a pretty tall order and like not swearing, requires more thought and gentleness. If I’m asked a question that would elicit a sarcastic answer, I have to stop, breath and think of an appropriate answer. This process is the same when I’m angry so I do not speak what will hurt and tear apart someone I love.

The pastor began his sermon with Matthew 12:36-37. “But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgement for every careless word they have spoken. For by your words you will be aquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.” He said he would be a fool to judge someone in such a way but that these are not his own words, but Christ’s and not to say them would be foolish. I can only thank God that I am forgiven of all my sinful words and actions. Even on a gloomy, unhappy day, I can know this joy.